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Cassandra Says:

June 16, 2009

The number one crime a woman can commit is to demand that women are put first and foremost. Doing so is an act even some of the most ardent feminists cannot tolerate. If a woman persistently advocates that women come first, all old tropes will be trotted out and used against those nasty women-first-women.

All male learned venom will be flung at those women who dare to put women first. All internalized misogyny will surface. The wagons will circle in an attempt to rid any presence of those horrible women who demand that women be treated as human and not as some second thought, second cause. Those women-first-women will be demonized to the hilt. Beware and forewarn women, if you dare to break the lockstep, you may be next. You are not immune.

Putting women first after being conditioned to place men and everything else first is a hard road to hoe. Emotions run high and wild. Moreover, the most dramatic, and ironically the one often spreading the most poison, will be the woman who benefitted her whole life from being perceived as the good woman. The good woman will not want to lose her position, her status; her no god shall be worshipped before her spot (except the male god that comes before her by default, –she understands this and accepts the position as supreme woman over all women) so she will fight the dirtiest. Demagogues and charlatans envy her skill.

It is time to open your eyes women. You cannot be an all-inclusive woman and be a feminist too. Not in a patriarchy. You may benefit one, but he benefits two or more.

  1. June 16, 2009 7:36 pm

    Sounds like I’m missing some drama somewhere.

    • June 16, 2009 7:48 pm

      Nothing really. The same ol same ol. Anti-white supremacist anti-classism women-first-feminists are thrown under the bus by the “I enjoy my privilege and want to be excused for putting things that make me feel like a good woman over feminism,” feminists.

      Or, in other words. Hypocrites, chickenshits and two-faced assholes doing what they do best.

    • Mary Sunshine permalink
      June 16, 2009 8:27 pm


      Lots of nasty demoralizing stories. Kind of crap that trannies and sex-pozzies do. Guaranteed to drain the blood from your veins.

      But sometimes I wonder, if we didn’t know this, then what *would* we know?

      Please, beam me up to the female planet *now*.

      (“Good” women, will, of course, want to stay here with the males.)

    • June 16, 2009 8:30 pm

      Yeah, moving on.

    • June 17, 2009 1:25 am

      We have to find something else to know, Mary, we have to!

  2. Undercover Punk permalink
    June 16, 2009 8:45 pm

    Tellll it, Cassandra! It *is* hard to put women first after all of that internalizing. But damn, if feminists can’t make it happen, how do these crazies think MEN will ever follow suit to the legendary fantasy land of Sweet Equality? It’s totally irrational.

  3. June 17, 2009 6:05 pm

    Another great post. And yes it *does* seem hard to put women first or even imagine doing it or imagine what such a landscape would look like — even as an exercise.

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