The Un-Widow and the Ex-Wife
Females interested in having relationships with males need to take heed to the following story. Or if you are interested in seeing how the neo-liberals (white people who have learned how to sound like they are not supporting oppression but continue to support oppression) have high-jacked oppression rhetoric in order to justify white males doing whatever the hell they want to do. Since Justin/Nikki Purdue and his enablers are hell bent on spreading his side of the story, let me tell you about the true victims in this case. Politically, the real victims in this spectacle are females at birth who desire a halfway decent relationship with males, more specifically, a female of color.
Manipulating and calculating mentally ill males who set themselves up as women will use their positions to make life of any female in association with their love interest a living hell. Yes, these males are mentally ill. The desire to mutilate your body is a mental illness. In reality, sex is a biological fact and gender is a social construct. In logical land, facts are not altered to accommodate constructs. Constructs are separated and eliminated from influencing facts. If you do not understand what I just said it is as easy as this, a male does not have to have his penis removed if he enjoys wearing dresses. A female does not have to remove her breasts to play football. Don’t go to sleep on me though, because I am here to tell you that male entitlement knows no bound, –regardless of whether these entitled males keep their penis intact or split it open and butterfly and tack it back.
Utilizing surgery to correct psychological conditions is not only savage but counterproductive to the elimination of gender roles. We no longer expect or accept a doctor performing a lobotomy when one is clinically depressed, so why is it that so many people are on board with a male mutilating his body? If a person is anti-gender, the productive approach for challenging stereotypical gender is to challenge stereotypical gender roles. Attempting to line one’s genitals with one’s external performance is not combating gender but enabling and perpetuating gender roles based on birth sex. A male with his penis intact and appearing as a person an average person would label a woman is tenfold more radical than a male who cuts off his penis with the intent of it appearing as a vulva and externalizing himself as a woman.
Justin/Nikki and his enablers would have you believe that he is a poor grieving “widow.” Nothing can be further from the truth. The night Thomas Araguz died in a fire at the Maxim egg farm; Justin/Nikki Purdue was on his way to California. When he heard about the accident, he literally had to turn around and return to Wharton, Texas. Justin/Nikki was on his way to California because his relationship with Thomas had been severed. The gig was up for Justin/Nikki and he had no further reason to hang out in Wharton. His bid for mayor was a bust, his magazine in which he attempted to teach female at birth women how to live like genteel ladies was awash, his fraudulent marriage was discovered, and the man he is currently boohooing over the airwaves as the “love of his life” had informed him of an intended legal dissolution of their farce of a union. (Whether Thomas knew about Justin/Nikki’s male at birth status or not, Thomas chose his blood family over continuing a relationship with Nikki.)
When Justin/Nikki arrived back in Wharton, he had no home to store his synthetic hormone filled pill bottles and impending un-widow’s weeds. The generous people at Maxim egg farm put Justin up at the Holiday Inn. In a television interview, Justin claims to have an apartment lease beginning in June. Why would Nikki have to stay at the Holiday Inn if he and Thomas were living together and had a lease that started a month earlier? The court order not to remove any community property was not filed until July 12, 2010. So, why didn’t Justin/Nikki stay at their so called home from July 5, 2010 to July 12, 2010 instead of staying at the Holiday Inn?
Nevertheless, the victims in this horrendous nightmare that Justin/Nikki has created have been and still are Thomas’ ex-wife, Heather Delgado and her two children. Heather Delgado loved Thomas since middle school. From there she grew into a somewhat shy and docile woman. Heather expected her marriage to Thomas to last forever. They had two children. Thomas had ambitions and Heather was happy to stay home, take care of the house and care for the children. Thomas was known to be domineering, sometimes to the point of being unbearable. Yet, Heather was dutiful. He also had a particular appetite that Heather was not willing to satisfy. Instead of compromising, Thomas wandered. None of this negates the fact that Thomas died heroically however. Not all (actually none) of our courageous heroes in this world are pure as the driven snow.
While still married to Heather, Thomas started an affair with Justin/Nikki. Justin/Nikki knew Thomas was married and did not care. It was like some twisted validation for Justin/Nikki. If he could steal a man from a real woman then in his mind the act validated his womanhood (a construct). This is just another example of how female at birth women are sacrificed for the ego of delusional males. In addition, these men are protected from misogyny in the name of “just trying to find someone to love.” If it had been a female at birth woman who had stolen Thomas from Heather, she would have been called a home wrecker and a whore. Not to mention that ridiculous white wedding dress with full face veil that Justin wore. LMAO! The misogynistic virgin patrol would have raked a female at birth over the coals for that exhibition. But Justin/Nikki’s trannie-ism protects him from such misogyny. Just like Justin/Nikki is not being labeled a gold digger. If a female at birth woman had pushed a man into high-risk occupations (Justin/Nikki claims to have sent Thomas to the police and fire academy and EMT school. ETA: A refuted assertion. Looks like Justin/Nikki wants to appear that he was an encouraging bread winner so his gold digging won’t be so obvious. He may had pushed, but not paid. In other words he is claiming credit for what taxpayers provided.) the immediate public perception would be that she is a calculating gold digger relying on her husband being killed in the line of duty. Yet, because a poor pitiful delusional white male is “looking for love”, he is exempted from such vitriolic and misogynistic labels and suspicions.
It was not enough for Justin/Nikki to seduce Thomas away from Heather. He had to taunt Heather. He went out of his way to remind Heather of what he took. After one such taunting, mysteriously, Heather’s truck’s fuel tank was filled with bleach. It cost her over $800 in repairs. And if that was not enough, Justin/Nikki with Thomas used Heather’s new found poverty to take away her children. Yes, that’s right. With no viable skills, Heather was unable to support herself and the children after their divorce. It was less than a month between Thomas and Heather’s divorce and Justin/Nikki and Thomas’ fraudulent union. Instead of providing child support, Justin/Nikki decided it was better for him and Thomas to have custody of the children. Since they appeared as a heterosexual two parent home and Heather was only one, and since they had two incomes (or the ability for two incomes) and Heather had none, they presented the case that they were better fit to care for the children than Heather. They manipulated the heterosexist court system by pretending to be a heterosexual couple seeking custody. They used their perceived heterosexuality to steamroll over a female at birth. There was no neglect or abuse on Heather’s part, none. Yet, that is how little this male thought about this female who had these children and had taken care of them and loved them their whole lives.
Justin/Nikki tried to commandeer all aspects of Heather’s children’s lives, including their medical and educational direction. In addition, it lasted for a year. Heather was torn apart from her children and taunted and tormented for over a year. It was not until Heather earned enough money by having numerous plate lunch sells and bake sells to get the money to fight for her children. She didn’t rely on thievery and deception, she utilized perseverance and true love for her children. Unlike how Thomas and Justin/Nikki only wanted custody to avoid paying child support and to have total control over two children.
In cases such as this one, patterns are most telling. Nikki/Justin has a history of entangling himself with previously perceived as heterosexual Latino men, with children. One has to wonder what could possibly be the motive for the type of men he targets. A fetish? A strategic manipulation based on cultural expectations? I’m sure Mr. Mata, Justin’s first “ex-” could tell us a story or two.
Justin/Nikki’s history exposes quite the pattern. It reveals someone who could very well push a man into a high-risk profession in order to collect death benefits. Last week Nikki was specifically ordered by Judge Clapp not to spend any money he received from Thomas’ death until all the legal questions were answered and judgments were made. However, Nikki does what Nikki wants to do and when he received a check for $60,000 Thursday, July 22, 2010 he immediately spent almost $2000 and would have plowed through more of it if court had not been in session at 9:00 am Friday, July 23, 2010. Why the judge did not charge Nikki with contempt is anyone’s guess.
It is no wonder Thomas’ mother and ex-wife are concern about Justin/Nikki getting his hands on any money. Justin/Nikki has a history of stealing. Right out of high school in 1992, he was given probation for theft. In 1994, when he should have been deciding what he was going to do with his life, Justin garner another year of probation for theft. More of Justin thieving in 1995 earned him 20 days in jail. If anyone thought jail rehabilitated Mr. Purdue, he or she would be wrong. Five years later in 2000 he was booked for theft and, not for the last time either. Nikki’s itchy and envious fingers got the best of him in 2002 landing him in the stony lonesome for 30 days. After a decade of stealing and thieving, it is conceivable to conclude that Justin Purdue would have no qualms trying to take what does not rightfully belong to him. Justin/Nikki Purdue is a serial thief. Throw in a few failures to produce identification/driver’s license, a cocaine possession in 2007 and driving under the influence and the early making of an authentic degenerate is revealed.
But we are to excuse all of that because, he is just looking for love. Well who isn’t? If a person has to lie to get love, then perhaps that person needs to reexamine his or her life. Love built on lies is lies.
During a custody hearing a few months prior to Thomas’ premature death, he was presented evidence that Justin/Nikki was born a male. Yes, a male. Let’s not pretend that we don’t understand or have never heard of the barbaric practices of the medical profession for the last hundred years. Any story about Nikki/Justin genitals being insufficiently male, thus calling his sex into question is a lie. You know why? If Justin/Nikki’s genitals were insufficiently identifiable as male at the time of his birth in 1975, the doctors would have reconstructed the genitals immediately and requested the family to gender Justin as a girl. If the doctors had even bother telling the parents anything but they had a girl. Gender is based on performance. Parents, society (for the most part) and caregivers generally condition a child to perform one gender or the other, mostly likely in accordance with biological sex. However, if a male baby boy is told that he is a girl, dressed in pink and dolls shoved on him, he will most likely grow up believing he is a girl. Traditionally in cases of blotched deliveries (in which the penis is irreparably damaged), and/or birth deformities and ambiguities, doctors have erred on the side of girl, not boy. The fact that the doctors did not do this with Justin/Nikki warrants a reasonable doubt when considering Nikki’s birth tale of being biologically ambiguous. Of course there will be scores of trannie-agenda driven doctors willing to rewrite the facts. They have to in order to avoid being expose for treating mental illnesses with surgery.
None of that matters though. During the last custody hearing in which Heather gained back custody of her children, both Thomas and Justin/Nikki swore under oath that Thomas was not aware of Justin/Nikki’s birth sex. That is why any arguments about Thomas knowing or not knowing are irrelevant. There are signed documents by the both of them claiming he did not know anything. Justin also admitted in an interview that he did not have surgery (not that surgery can change one’s sex) until after the illegal wedding. Moreover, to say otherwise now, is to demonstrate how Justin/Nikki is willing to lie to guide an outcome in his favor. Nevertheless, the single argument about Thomas knowing or not knowing does not matter because the great state of Texas does not recognize same sex marriage. Regardless of how insensitive or anti-homosexual this law is, it is currently the law. Citing this case as an example of homophobia is ridiculous. The point is, the fraud. It is not as if Nikki and Thomas were living as homosexuals, they were clearly trying to pass as a heterosexual couple. Promoting heterosexuality reinforces anti-homosexuality by outwardly aligning oneself with the status quo; it does nothing for the plight of same sex marriage or the acceptance of homosexuality. When discovered, it just makes people feel deceived. No one likes being duped.
By all means, spare me the neo-liberal claptrap focusing on how my opinion is denying this white male his personhood or how I am obligated to put his white entitled delusions above the concerns of a female of color who was treated as disposable trash.
Now it is being reported that Justin was on Jerry Springer. How low can you go? Anything for attention. I think all of these trannies are suffering from malingering. It is a mental illness. Attention. Secondary gain. Attention. Secondary gain. Attention and secondary gain are all they want. They don’t want love, they want people to indulge them. If it was just one kiss with a stranger, why drag that stranger in front of the whole world? The attention and the $500, that’s why.