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November 30, 2017

So many women (females) are wasting time on trannies.  They justify it by saying, “Trannies are stripping women of our rights.”  This is true to a certain extent.  Fighting trannies is political and shouldn’t take any more energy than fighting any other political concern, yet, trannies are centered.  But just like “rescuing a dog [or cat],” I think it is all an excuse not to focus on and help women specifically.  There are thousands and thousands of women in your community who need your help, your energy, but a blind eye is turned to them, always.

I remember one of the very first so-called “feminist” blogs I read some thirteen years ago, was from a woman who was telling a story about how she thinks her neighbor and the woman’s children was being abused.  She wanted to help but didn’t want to get involved.  In the end, her solution was to call Child Protective Services.  What a fucking idiot.  When I commented and asked, “Have you ever offered to watch the children for an hour or so to give her a break?  Or offered to make her a meal?” my comment was deleted without reason.  Probably I was blocked, I don’t remember.  I remember getting the message I wasn’t welcomed.

Finding an excuse not to help a woman is so easy when you have been conditioned your whole life to blame women.  She could’ve done this, or should do that, or refuse to do this, she needs to help herself…………blah blah blah blah blah the fuck blah.  Often I believe a lot of young women have unplanned children subconsciously because if she doesn’t, no one will give a fuck about her. Males can go into their late 20’s and there will always be some woman, relative, or female-relative willing to help him out, give him a leg up.  I see it on my local Facebook garage sale site.  Let a young woman say she needs to move or get the hell out or find a means to support herself or children if she has any and she is floored with, “KFC/Taco Bell is hiring.” Then let some fucker who looks like he just got release from prison say quasi-humbly, “I will take anything.  I just need help getting on my feet,” and a fucking outpouring of support comes flooding in.  Case in point, the homeless vet who gave the couple his last $20 for fuel.  Last I heard, his GoFundMe was at $393,631.00.  It’s mostly a woman who is helping him. That’s what a lot of women do, they help men and ignore women in need.  Let some mother say she has been abused and need to leave, and crickets from strangers.  A man may assist a little bit if he wants to fuck her, and then after that happens he will disappear. Or let some girl say she needs assistance getting into to college, and the answer will be, “There are resources, she needs to get off her ass and find them.”  Nice.  Just like all the resources social services claimed was available when my daughter’s ex-husband kept calling CPS on her!  “I’m sorry but we have to investigate every single case, regardless of  why or who reported it.”  Yeah, fuck you, you power tripping sanctimonious assholes. You chased my first born into an early grave.

Are there women out there that act entitled after you have helped them?  Yes, there are.  I recently hosted a woman in my home, a childhood friend of 40 years, just for it to end badly, because I refuse to tolerate any other behavior towards me other than kindness and respect.   She needed a break from her shitty and lazy ass grown fucking sons.  The youngest 25, blew his kidney out because he is fat and lazy.  Save the anti-fat-shaming rhetoric.  This young man is fatter than a cow because he is extremely lazy, refuses to eat anything but fast-food, and will not do anything productive, including filling out the paperwork so the medical van will pick him up and take him to dialysis three times a week so his mother won’t have to worry about where the gas money and/or bus fare will come from.  The fat bastard was even too lazy to stand in line for the free one-time SNAP benefit the government was giving out without any type of investigation after the recent hurricanes.  That benefit alone could’ve gotten them through Thanksgiving and Christmas.  But, it wasn’t for fast-food so he didn’t care.

It’s not like she is obligated to let him live with her.  He was out fucking off and not listening to anyone when he destroyed his kidneys.  Yet, this same woman will not open her house for her daughter and her daughter’s children even though it is clear the daughter’s husband is treating her like shit.  The main thing is that he is going behind her back and giving a lot of money to his mother.   None of any of that is my business however.  My business is my dependents and me.

So I tell her, come and visit me.  It will be nice to have someone to talk to while I pack, and someone to walk with every evening.  Nope, didn’t turn out like that.  Apparently, even though I am currently receiving zero dollars and zero cents in alimony (that doesn’t start until I get out of his house, and thankfully, due to the help of a friend, and a small settlement, that will happen within the next three weeks), all she could see was the size of our house and see that the utilities were being paid.  Of course they fucking are, it’s called a divorce agreement.  It’s called I’m not going to get fucked over because my limp dick ex-husband decided he wanted to regress to the days of sitting on the porch after work and drinking and smoking until it was time to pass out, oh, and run to the dried up drunk that he boinked in high school for masculine reassurance.  Rinse and repeat all week.

Yeah, fuck off prick.

Anyway, she gets here and refuses to walk every evening.  One evening she actually told me she would walk if I took her to Popeye’s afterwards.  I couldn’t fucking believe it.  She told my granddaughter that her sweater was ugly.  Who says that to a seven year old? Even if I could forgive that, overall she refused to talk or listen.  It was  her phone 24/7 with no interest in anything but what her sons were doing back at home. It’s not like I didn’t tell her flat out I needed a cheerleader, an old friend while I go through this shit.  After that, I told her thanks for the visit, but she will need to secure her return flight immediately.  None of that is what ended the friendship.  What ended the friendship was what I found when I was bringing her luggage downstairs (because, not only were the stairs an inconvenience, she couldn’t possibly be expected to carry her own luggage since she is on disability due to her diabetes.) I found six pieces of my clothing in her luggage.  That’s right.  After I gave her so many of my things, because I have been purging like a maniac, she still felt the need to steal clothes out of my closet.  What made me suspect is when I went around the room to make sure she didn’t leave anything I saw six empty clothes hangers on the closet floor.  I don’t keep empty hangers in the closet. All empty hangers must go straight to the laundry room at all times. My mind was racing, and then finally I decided to open her suitcase and look. There were my clothes.  Including the very blouse I wore to my daughter’s funeral.  She asked me if she could have that blouse, and I told her no.  That there was another blouse exactly like that one but in another color that she could have, and she did take that one, so what was the purpose of stealing the one that I told her no?  Anyway, enough of that.  I got her to the airport and I haven’t talked to her since, –over two months ago.  Either respect me or get out of my face. But, it still begs the question, why is the line drawn at a woman’s behavior and men are allowed to behave badly and receive charity and consideration. This woman steals from me (a woman who is having to start from nothing), but can’t stop thinking about her grown ass sons. I had to wrestle the truth out of her about stealing the clothes.  Her only explanation was that she wanted to look nice when she took her son to dialysis and church. She came here with more clothes than I have. Unbelievable.

It all had me thinking about how much is centered on TRANNIES.  TRANNIES TRANNIES TRANNIES! Do you know, I now know in real life a woman whose husband left her because, boo hoo hoo, she wouldn’t accept his transition.  By the way, apparently she won’t accept him robbing their finances either.  It has been working up to be a quite dramatic divorce.  Frankly, he can die in a fire.

Then, there is this show that I started watching on Acorn.  I have to wait for a new episode each week instead of being allowed to binge watch.  It’s called Love, Lies, and Records.  The first episode was interesting enough to look forward to the second episode.  But, what happens in the second episode, sigh.  Trannie! There’s an evil woman who keeps calling “Jaime,” James.  Said, evil woman refuses to perform same-sex marriages.  Yet the male on the show, tells the Trannie, “Nice legs.” Message: The males are so tolerant, and the females are the haters.  The main character is a woman who is imposed upon by the trannie, who incidentally is her subordinate.  However, how hip is she?  She has been in a relationship for over 14 years without being married, and is cool with same-sex couples and trannies.  Which by the way, if they wanted to show us how she accepting she is  with same-sex couples why couldn’t that same sex couple be two women?  Instead, it is two men, one as it happens was previously married to a woman, and his ex-wife and their two sons are at the wedding being so supportive.   How much you want to bet he was cheating on his wife with his “soulmate” the whole time they were married. You want to impress me.  Have a female same-sex couple getting married with the ex-husband there supporting her, and that support is genuine and not some third-wave “humorous” irony of he is there because he is hoping to get in bed with both of them.

Trannies are males.  I can just imagine how happy trannies are that they are getting so much attention.

I juggle the life of a real woman.

Yeah. Focusing on real women is too much real work.


10 Comments leave one →
  1. Mary Sunshine permalink
    November 30, 2017 10:56 am

    ᕙ(`▽´)ᕗ Ah, Kitty, you’re in fighting form. It’s so good to see you posting again. ❤

    • November 30, 2017 11:58 am

      Mary, I’m so very-very angry and most of all disappointment in humanity. All the back patting is too much. All this courageous outing gross men. I outed gross men in the military and I got abused for doing it, even by women. That was 20 years ago.

  2. Mary Sunshine permalink
    November 30, 2017 12:48 pm

    I’m suspicious and sceptical of the whole trend of male workplace predators getting the axe on the basis of allegations. They never believed us before. Why now? There will be a backlash, and it will hit women like a wrecking ball.

    • November 30, 2017 12:57 pm

      There is already talk from some men about how scared they are to just exist. Of course their fear of being accused will be equal to the fear that women feel with the threat of assault. Same/Same in their land.

    • Mary Sunshine permalink
      November 30, 2017 1:03 pm

      OK, but who’s dropping the axe on them? Other men. Women don’t have the power to make those firing decisions. Kitty, what do *you* think is actually going on here? To me, it sounds like / feels like a whole drama being staged by men. Is it being staged to justify whatever the planned backlash will be? ( so very paranoid in my old age … )

  3. November 30, 2017 1:10 pm

    I don’t even have theories floating enough to mold anything out of it. I’m too distracted right now and I suspect I will be until the spring. I do find it weird that allegations alone are getting these men fired. Maybe it is a new day. Or maybe the truth is so bad that they are hoping we will be happy with the “gold dust in the chickenfeed.” Can you imagine the day in which males will act like they are the victims of a “witch hunt?” I can see that narrative developing.

  4. November 30, 2017 1:25 pm

    And if there isn’t already enough age discrimination in the workplace, especially toward women, I was reading somewhere today, Jezebel, Facebook, or comments on some news article how this younger generation of women know how to bring men down. There is always that pitting going on, you know. Because, yes, yes, women before now didn’t know how to report sexual assaults and harassment. Rose McGowan started complaining in 1997 (the same year I filed my harassment claim with the military). Yet, it took 20 years for people to now see that McGowan was credible. I don’t have any recourse for what I suffered.

  5. Branjor permalink
    December 2, 2017 11:26 am

    Often I believe a lot of young women have unplanned children subconsciously because if she doesn’t, no one will give a fuck about her.

    I wouldn’t be surprised. Years ago (about 25-30), when I was living alone, the heat in my apartment gave out in the midst of a below zero cold snap. As I had nowhere else to go at the time, I called the police department and the male officer who answered the phone asked if I had any children. When I said no, it was just too bad, they would only help me if I had children. And that was that, I could freeze to death as far as he was concerned, if I didn’t have children. Anyways, I finally got the idea of putting on my oven, which luckily was electric, to heat the place until the heating was restored. And it was the Valparaiso, Indiana police department, as I don’t give a damn about identifying the dept. which treated me that way for all to see.

    • December 2, 2017 12:10 pm

      The homeless vet is 34 years old. His money is almost at $400,000. Can you believe that? A white male young veteran in America, and the population gives to him? Wow, just wow.

    • December 2, 2017 1:20 pm

      There is something evil about with-holding heat. Last year (and now this year, but we will be gone in the next three weeks), my ex-husband would let the heating oil run out even though he was court ordered to pay for it. We were no contact (by his court request) yet he was allowed to say he didn’t know when the oil would run out. Well, why not have a standing order to add oil every month. He wanted us to run out of oil because it teaches the nasty bitch (and her dependents) a lesson for kicking him out. And with no contact it costs money to let the lawyer know to let the other lawyer to know to tell him to order heating oil. Then there is a wait for the oil company to come out, then there is another wait when the furnace doesn’t work because the lines have to be bled because that is what happens when you let the oil run out. The game of informing the lawyers to inform the lawyers to have him pay someone to come out and bleed the lines starts the abusive game all over again. And you have to do this, because if you give in and pay, then it will be, you don’t need him to pay you alimony or child support because you seem to manage well on your own. /rant But hey, the homeless vet gave someone some gas money so let’s give him $400,000!

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